To Pierangelo
I created a wonderful life, full of happy moments in every aspect, I have been kissed by fortune indeed.
The biggest gift was meeting a wonderful man like the one who has been my mate and husband for years and years. With him I shared everything, the most beautiful moments of my life and the ones that appeared sad at first sight. We grew up together, transforming our relationship in an extraordinary couple life year by year.
Today I would like to share our love with you.
Our love nurtured me and supported me to become the woman I am. My husband contributed with his presence, his intelligence, his wisdom, his sweetness, sensitiveness, love for everything and everybody, to all that I am now. I will never stop loving and thanking him.
We shared life and spiritual growth for more than 35 years. We attended at seminars and trained professionally together to become Rebirthing teachers.
We travelled around the world enriching ourselves year after year. We built our life and our love second after second.
Our harmony was total, in mutual respect for whom each of us was.
I love my life, every second of it has been important for me in order to become the independent woman that I am.
Also the death of my husband Pierangelo even if painful contributed to all this.
His leaving the body was a sad moment for me but full of love at the same time. In that moment there was a strong love enveloping me and the extraordinary thought that came to my mind was that love is infinite and limitless. During the months that followed, and for some years during the grieving integration, feeling the love that bonded us instead of the missing supported me a lot, and helped me living this period in a better way. I support any person who might be experiencing this situation and not only to focus as much as possible on love and, at the same time, to allow herself to feel pain, sadness and anger that are part of the healing process. We are innocent in feeling anger for what happened to us too.
I am grateful towards my husband and I forgive myself and I forgive him for going away so soon.
Another very important point, once the grieving has been integrated, is total acceptance of the radical change of life, which is what brings you towards happiness for your life.
I am the independent woman that I have always wanted to be. I am a happy woman because happiness is inside myself and very important I dont regret the past any longer. Past is past and future is now. Who I am today is the result of my whole life. Every cell of my body is smiling, full of wellbeing and love. I found my zest for life again, and the enthusiasm for life that I had lost in these last years. But even bigger, because it is inside myself and has its origin in me independently from what happens outside. Of course, if something unpleasant happens, somebody is not well or dies I am not happy, but like never before I now know that it is only a temporary thing, everything passes and gets transformed. Even the deep pain for the death of a dearest person, like Pierangelo was to me.
Another very important thing that I understood and integrated very deeply thanks to Rebirthing, is that I am not taking anything away from him nor from our love if I keep living a happy life, a life full of love, prosperity and satisfaction like I had with him, on the contrary, this is in my opinion the gift of a life full of love and happiness with him.
I love him and I will love him forever.
PEACE & LOVE
Francesca